Let’s face it, men looking for sex nowadays have a plate filled with options, some really good, and others.. well not so much.
Top amongst the favorites are of course the porn movies which can be rented, purchased of course watched online. We’ve all sat down in front of a computer or television set, hands on our dick, pumping up and down to the tune of the images. As a static, non interactive sexual activity, watching a porno movie fills its purpose reasonably well, but it is always going to remain just that: Static sex. You watch, you masturbate, you come. Of course, adventurous couples can use those images as a source of inspiration for their own love making, anything that makes the sex we have more enjoyable, I am all in favor off.
But what if you want to actually “do” it with a real person? Interact, talk and listen to, have a mutual “engagement with one another”?
Then then there is nothing better in my mind than phone sex. I have been a phone sex “practitioner” for years now, and even though I am a married man and I do get it at home, calling a fantasy phone chat line has brought spice into my life and enabled me to explore a sexuality that I never knew I had.
Phone sex has also made me a better lover as my wife would attest to, if only because having sex with other women has made me realize that we are all unique individual, with our own fetish fantasies and needs and if I can learn from my telephone lovers, than I can share this experience with my wife.
There is no magic bullet for a successful sex life. What there is though is an opportunity for each and everyone of us to feel free to experiment with a wide variety of subject, and still phone sex is all about role play, there is nothing better in my books.
So don’t put your movie collection away yet, but certainly store it right next to your telephone set which you should use for the next time you want to have sex with an actual person.
Contributed by Andy.
